Recovery Scriptures - Dan Hitz

Dan Hitz is the director of Reconciliation Ministries of Michigan, Inc. He is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in helping men and women overcome sexual brokenness, sexual abuse, and trauma. You can find more recovery articles and testimonies on the Reconciliation Ministries website at https://recmin.org/newsletter-archives.

This article presents a brief look at some Bible verses that are helpful in whatever recovery situation you may find yourself in. Of course, there are many more recovery verses that aren’t included in this newsletter. Let us know which verses are the most helpful to you in your own recovery, especially if they aren’t included in this newsletter. We might include them in a future newsletter. You can send them to us via email at info@recmin.org.

 

18 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He has anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed; 19 to proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord.” – Luke 4:18-19 NKJV

This is one my favorite recovery Scriptures. In the original language, the phrase “brokenhearted” means shards of glass like a broken mirror. Jesus knows that the trauma of life causes our hearts to break into pieces. The same part of our heart that is crying out for the Lord to deliver us from addiction and make us more like Him is not the same part of our heart sitting at our computer looking at porn. Jesus wants access to all the parts of our heart. He wants to heal the wounds that we’re trying to numb with sin. He wants to put the broken pieces back together.

 

9 Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, 10 or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people – none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God. 11 Some of you were once like that. But you were cleansed; you were made holy; you were made right with God by calling on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. – 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 NLT

When I first got saved, I needed to know that the Lord could deliver me from homosexuality. I wanted to see evidence that someone in the Bible engaged in homosexual acts and was delivered. This verse offers 2000-year-old evidence that the Holy Spirit can forgive the sin of homosexuality, cleanse the person’s heart, and make them holy. The sins listed in these verses cover every one of us in one way or another, especially if we apply the principle that if we’ve looked at someone lustfully we’ve committed adultery in our hearts [Matthew 5:27-28]. There is hope for everyone.

 

“Come now, and let us reason together,” says the Lord, “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool. – Isaiah 1:18 NKJV

This is another one of my favorite verses. The sovereign Creator of the universe invites us to reason together with Him. Reasoning together implies disagreement. I don’t need to reason with someone whom I’m already in agreement with. The Lord wants us to share our hearts with Him as He shares His heart with us. As we do this, we begin to understand things more clearly. We become more like Him as He transforms our hearts and helps us to love what He loves and hate what He hates.

10 Who among you fears the Lord and obeys his servant? If you are walking in darkness, without a ray of light, trust in the Lord and rely on your God. 11 But watch out, you who live in your own light and warm yourselves by your own fires. This is the reward you will receive from me: you will soon fall down in great torment. – Isaiah 50:10-11 NLT

We all walk in the darkness of intense trials at different points in our lives. The Lord showed me this verse as I was walking through an extremely painful time of grief after the death of one of my sons. In the middle of that intense darkness, I was tempted to numb the pain through sin. The Holy Spirit spoke this verse to me as a gentle but firm warning. He acknowledged the painful darkness, and warned me not to try to light my own fire – not to try to escape the painful darkness by numbing the pain through sin. He invited me to come to Him for comfort. By His grace I was able to resist the temptation and let Him carry me through that terrible darkness.

 

I will give you the treasures of darkness and hidden riches of secret places, that you may know that I, the Lord, Who call you by your name, am the God of Israel. – Isaiah 45:3 NKJV

At the same time that the Lord warned me not to light my own fire in the darkness of grief, He gave me this verse. As we go to Him in our times of darkness, He holds us in His arms and shares intimate details of His heart with us. We can only learn these deep truths as we open our hearts to Him and trust Him to carry us in the darkness. I doubt any of us would willingly sign up for times of intense trials, but as we trust Him in those trials, the deep truths the Lord speaks to our hearts bring life that we can’t get in any other way.

8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from wrath through Him. 10 For if when we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life. 11 And not only that, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation. –  Romans 5:8-11 NKJV

This verse shows us how powerful God’s love for us actually is. He is far from the angry father that is just waiting to clobber us if we make a mistake. Not only did the Father sacrifice His own Son to save us from Hell, He restored our relationship with Him. We can come to Him for help in our time of need. This verse implies that the same God who sacrificed His own Son while we were His enemies, will offer us even more grace for forgiveness and transformation after we’ve been redeemed.

 

1 My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. 2 He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins – and not only our sins but the sins of all the world. – 1 John 2:1-2 NLT

Just as God the Father is for us in our struggles with sin, so is Jesus the Son. We have no hope in our own strength. We will likely fail many times in our recovery from addictive sin. All is not lost. Jesus paid the penalty for our sins, and brings our needs before the Father in Heaven.

 

8 If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth. 9 But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. – 1 John 1:8-9 NLT

We all sin. God’s forgiveness requires us to be honest and confess our sins. The good news is that Jesus is merciful. Not only will He forgive our sins, He will continue to work in our hearts to cleanse us from our evil desires that lead us into sin. This process is called sanctification. It isn’t quick, but as we are faithful to be open and honest with the Lord, He will be faithful to transform our hearts and make us more like Him.

 

15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. – Hebrews 4:15-16 NIV

I wrote earlier that as a new Christian, I needed to know that there were people in the Bible that struggled with the same things I struggled with and got victory. I also wondered how Jesus, who lived a sinless life, could understand my struggles. These verses brought a sigh of relief. When I read that Jesus was tempted in every way we are, I realized that He understood my struggles. Jesus knew what it was like to be tempted to do the very same sinful things that held me captive. Even better, He never gave into those temptations. He knew how to be victorious. So often, shame causes us to hide during times of temptation. Jesus doesn’t shame us! He invites us to His throne in the middle of our temptations and equips us to live in victory.

 

12 I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength, that he considered me trustworthy, appointing me to his service. 13 Even though I was once a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent man, I was shown mercy because I acted in ignorance and unbelief. 14 The grace of our Lord was poured out on me abundantly, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. 15 Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners – of whom I am the worst. 16 But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life. – 1 Timothy 1:12-16 NIV

Paul, who calls himself “the worst of sinners”, was forgiven to demonstrate God’s mercy and grace. It may be easy to dismiss his conversion because Paul wrote that he “acted in ignorance and unbelief”. He truly believed that he was doing the right thing when he was persecuting Christians. When we engaged in our addictions, most of us knew full well that we were sinning and did what we did anyway. Maybe we even engaged in our addictions after we became Christians. In these situations, we can find comfort in the life of King David [2 Samuel 11]. Unlike Paul, David didn’t act in “ignorance and unbelief”. He knew he committed adultery with Bathsheba. When she became pregnant He willingly tried to cover up his sin by sending her husband, Uriah, home from battle to sleep with her. When that didn’t work, David had him killed. Although it’s true that David suffered many consequences for his sin, the Lord confronted him in a redemptive manner that brought him to repentance [2 Samuel 12]. In Acts 13:22, David is called a man after God’s own heart. If God was willing to forgive David for his terrible sins, He is willing to forgive us.

7 Soon a Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, “Please give me a drink.”

13 Jesus replied, “Anyone who drinks this water will soon become thirsty again. 14 But those who drink the water I give will never be thirsty again. It becomes a fresh, bubbling spring within them, giving them eternal life.”

28 The woman left her water jar beside the well and ran back to the village, telling everyone, 29 “Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did! Could he possibly be the Messiah?” 30 So the people came streaming from the village to see him. – John 4:7, 13-14, 28-30 NLT

One of my favorite examples of the Lord’s forgiveness and transformation is the woman at the well in John 4:1-42. This Samaritan woman had a bad reputation. She already went through five husbands and now she’s living with some other guy that she’s not even married to. According to historical tradition, she was shunned by the town and had to come to the well in the heat of the day when it would be deserted. Jesus wasn’t afraid to talk to her. Even his disciples were shocked to see Him talking to a Samaritan woman. Jesus didn’t condemn her. He confronted her sin in a way that drew her closer to the Father. She accepted His offer of Living Water and ran to evangelize her entire town. They knew what she used to be like, but somehow, her encounter with Jesus made her different. This woman’s transformed life brought many people to Jesus. We can bring others to Jesus as we share our testimony of how Jesus changed our lives.

 

10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?” 11 “No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.” – John 8:10-11 NLT

1 So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. 2 And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. – Romans 8:1-2 NLT

The devil loves to throw condemnation at us. Revelation 12:10 says that he accuses us before God day and night. Sometimes we feel the impact of those accusations and get hit with condemnation. It’s hard to walk confidently in our faith and tell others about Jesus when we feel like a loser. Jesus doesn’t condemn us. He sets us free to live for Him. Even though we stumble, we can confess our sin to Him and be cleansed. Just as He told the disciples to forgive seven times seventy times [Matthew 18:21-22], Jesus will forgive us.

 

6 [B]eing confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. – Philippians 1:6 NIV

Our struggles might go on much longer than we want them to, but someday we will have total victory if we keep walking with the Lord. His promise to complete the work that He started in our hearts goes far beyond our struggles with whatever addictive sin brought us into recovery. It includes learning to walk as a dearly beloved son or daughter of the Father as He transforms every area of our hearts. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy; but Jesus came to bring us abundant life [John 10:10]. Nothing in our transformation process is wasted. As we grow in our faith, the Lord invites us to comfort others with the comfort that we’ve received from Him [2 Corinthians 1:4]. Recovery is worth the hard work!

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Love Is The Answer

This newsletter was originally written by Dan Hitz for The MST Project’s Real Men Pursuing Purity Event 40 devotional booklet, The Path to Holiness, in February 2024. The MST Project is a Christian ministry committed to helping every man realize his full potential. MST stands for "Mentoring Men, Strengthening Marriages, Teaching Truth." The MST Project was founded by Christian Lenty and is an international ministry headquartered in Bangkok, Thailand. You can learn more about the MST Project at https://themstproject.com.

 “There was a certain creditor who had two debtors. One owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. And when they had nothing with which to repay, he freely forgave them both. Tell Me, therefore, which of them will love him more?”

Simon answered and said, “I suppose the one whom he forgave more.”

And He said to him, “You have rightly judged.”

Luke 7:41-43 NKJV

“The assurance of His total forgiveness of our sins through the blood of Christ means we don't have to play defensive games anymore. We don't have to rationalize and excuse our sins. We can call sin exactly what it is, regardless of how ugly and shameful it may be, because we know that Jesus bore that sin in His body on the cross.”

Jerry Bridges, The Navigators

If you’re reading this devotional it’s likely that you’ve been forgiven for a lot of bad things that have caused you much shame. The good news is that even when we were living a sinful life, God showed how much He loves us by sending His son, Jesus, to take the punishment that we deserved. (Romans 5:8) When we come to Him in repentance, He takes away our sin and invites us to live our lives in relationship with Him. He offers us the joy, peace, and fulfillment that we were looking for all along. His offer of forgiveness continues as we learn to live in relationship with Him and overcome our sin day by day. (Romans 5:1-11) The more we realize how much He has forgiven us, the more our love for Him grows. (Luke 7:36-50)

Through relationship with Jesus, we realize that the sinful things that we once thought were so valuable actually have no value. Even though our sexual sins may have felt very powerful, they actually robbed us of our strength. They put us into spiritual debt. When we turn away from our sins and ask Jesus for forgiveness, He forgives our debts and teaches us to value His ways. In relationship, He asks us to surrender the worthless things that caused us shame, and gives us things of great eternal value in their place. His love for us empowers us far more than the destructive false love of sexual sin cripples us.

Focusing on the love of Jesus and the better gifts He offers us helps us resist sin. A while ago I was looking at social media as I was getting ready to fall asleep. Temptation hit. I had a choice to make. I could surrender to the offer of a lesser pleasure that would give an immediate powerful payoff, but would bring shame and guilt; or I could look to Jesus who truly loves me and offers a much better reward for surrendering to Him. Thankfully I chose to forsake the shameful offering of sin, and embrace the Lord’s offering of peace. It was my love for Jesus and the desire to live for Him that helped me forsake sin. I got off of social media, turned on some audio Bible verses, and went to sleep. I woke the next morning to a wonderfully intimate prayer time with Jesus and could sense Him sharing powerful spiritual insights. Jesus’ love for me and my love for Him helped me turn away from the lesser action of sin and turn towards His wonderful gift of sexual purity and emotional peace. His love can help you too.

It is so much easier to walk away from something if you know what you are walking toward. Ask the Lord to help you understand His love for you and His goals for your life. As your love for Him grows, your appreciation of the value of His gifts will grow too. Focus on these things during your times of temptation. God’s love and His gifts are far more powerful than the destructive pleasure of sin.

  1. Can you fully receive the love and forgiveness that Jesus offers you, or do you struggle with condemnation?

  2. What has your sexual sin cost you emotionally, relationally, and experientially?

  3. What has Jesus offered you in exchange for your sin?

Dan Hitz is the Executive Director of Reconciliation Ministries of Michigan. He is an ordained minister and licensed professional counselor specializing in helping people overcome sexual brokenness, sexual abuse, and trauma. Dan has been in the ministry for over thirty years and lives with his wife, Marianne, in Metro Detroit, Michigan, USA.

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© 2024 Reconciliation Ministries of Michigan, Inc. This article may be reproduced and distributed as long as no fee is charged and credit is given.

 

What is the MST Project?

Christian Lenty is the founder and director of The MST Project, a ministry that seeks to mentor men into a pursuit of sexual purity and greater wholeness. Christian has lived and worked in Thailand for over 22 years and resides in Bangkok with his wife. This information was taken from https://themstproject.com/about/ and reprinted with permission.

MST stands for "Mentoring Men, Strengthening Marriages, Teaching Truth." As a ministry, we seek to support men everywhere through our three initiatives, On The Street, Pathway to Purity, and Real Men Pursuing Purity. And through these three initiatives, we advocate for men pursuing purity, Biblically healthy marriages, loving and caring families, and an unwavering commitment to the truth.

The MST Project focuses on three primary initiatives: On the Street ministers to men who visit red-light districts through sidewalk conversations, 1-on-1 meetings, and online resources. Pathway to Purity provides 1-on-1 mentorship, weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly accountability, and online resources. Real Men Pursuing Purity hosts quarterly events, provides weekly connect groups and online resources. Please refer to each specific ministry page for a comprehensive overview of each of our initiatives.

We believe that God's love, mercy, and grace is for all men, in all places, and at all times. We view all men as the fathers, brothers, and sons they are and whom God cares deeply about. (Genesis 2:7, 2 Peter 3:9) All people deal with issues, but not everyone has someone to help them overcome those issues. Our heart is to be that support for men wanting to make changes in their life.

When a man invites us to be a part of his life and the struggles he is encountering, we don't run away. We listen, we offer hope, we provide practical guidance, and we share the truth. Our care for men is best demonstrated by our commitment to men.

Visit https://themstproject.com/ to learn more about online resources and support.

© 2024 The MST Project. Reprinted with permission.

Standing in Your True Identity in Christ - Dan Hitz

This article is inspired from Chapter Ten of the 1996 edition of the Living Waters Guidebook, “The Cross: Resurrecting the True Self” by Andrew Comiskey. You can find out more information about Living Waters at https://www.desertstream.org/#.  Dan Hitz is the director of Reconciliation Ministries of Michigan, Inc.

 Then he [Jesus] asked them, “But who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Jesus replied, “You are blessed, Simon son of John, because my Father in heaven has revealed this to you. You did not learn this from any human being. Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means ‘rock’) and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.
Matthew 16:15-18 NLT

God places a lot of importance on names… on identities... As you read through the entire conversation in Matthew 16, you’ll see that people were calling Jesus all sorts of things at that time. It’s interesting to note that Peter actually had the correct answer, and it was revealed to him by the Father in Heaven. He didn’t figure it out by human reasoning. Jesus followed up His affirmation of Peter by highlighting Peter’s own name and it’s meaning. He then reveals His plans for Peter and the Kingdom. When the Lord renames people in Scripture, it reflects the transformation that occurs in their hearts. Abram became Abraham, Sarai became Sarah, and Saul became Paul. When God speaks our names, He speaks our identities. When He speaks our identities, He speaks vision and calling.

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Who do you say that you are? More importantly, who does God say that you are? As Christians, if we answer that question theologically, the answer is pretty powerful. 1 Thessalonians 1:4 says we are loved by God and chosen. 1 Corinthians 6:11 says we are washed, justified, and sanctified. Romans 8:37 says we are more than conquerors. The list of our Biblical attributes and identities goes on and on. Unfortunately, if we listen to the pain in our hearts, our identities can be quite different. Just like the people in Jesus’ day called Him many things, people in our day have called us many things. Some of those names were nice… some not so nice. Sometimes those not so nice names come back at us years later when we answer the question of who we are from the pain in our hearts… looser… hopeless… unwanted… and a whole lot worse.

Where did those nasty names come from? Sometimes parents in a fit of rage give us labels that sink deep into our hearts… “You’ll never amount to anything!” “You’re dumber than a head of lettuce!” “You’re a tramp!” When words like these are spoken over us by our parents, they are written in indelible ink on our souls. Sometimes our peers label us. I’ve talked with people who were labeled “faggot” even before they knew what the word meant. It’s tough to grow up and not fit a typical gender stereotype. Rough and tumble girls and sensitive, artistic boys can carry a lot of hurtful labels given to them by neighborhood kids who didn’t give them a second thought.

Sometimes labels come from the shame in our own hearts. As a small child, I didn’t realize that my body was built to respond to touch. My nerve endings didn’t know if my abusers’ touch was wanted or unwanted. I hated myself when my body responded to that touch. I carried the label of “disgusting little pervert” for years. Sometimes we’ve actually done perverted things by choice as an adult, yet even as a repentant Christian we still carry that label. Many of us in recovery gladly tell others in our small groups that they are new creations in Christ and that their old nature is gone (2 Corinthians 5:17), but when we listen to the condemnation in our own hearts, it’s quite a different story. Even after walking with Jesus for years, we may still wrestle with some pretty nasty identities. Some of them I hesitate to even print in this newsletter. But we hear them in our hearts. We might even say them out loud when no one’s around. We wonder if we’re the exception to that new creation in Christ verse. After all, if I’m a new creation, why am I still struggling?

This brings us back to our need to be defined by the Father. We need a supernatural revelation of who we are in Christ. We need the voice of the Father to speak louder than the pain in our hearts. We need to live the truth of Galatians 2:20 NIV that declares, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” We aren’t defined by our old, fallen nature anymore. We are defined by Christ. That applies even if we’ve sinned after coming to Christ. It is then that we take refuge in 1 John 1:9 NIV, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” Jesus doesn’t identify us by our fallen nature. He identifies us as who we are in Him.

So how do we sincerely lay down our old identities and fully embrace our true identities in Christ? We need to take some time to get quiet with the Father and open our hearts to Him. The thought of getting quiet with God about how He sees us might sound frightening. Remember, He knew everything about us before we even came to Him. He won’t reject us. He knows everything about us and still loves us. Find peace in the truth, “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8b NIV).

Understand that Jesus took the full weight of our sin and shame on Himself when he was crucified on the cross. His death and resurrection are infinitely more powerful than our sin. Not just for our salvation, but for our transformation into mature sons and daughters of the Father. 2 Corinthians 5:21 tells us that Jesus, who had no sin, become sin for us, so that we can be transformed into the righteousness of God. Romans 6 tells us that our old, sinful natures were crucified with Christ, and that Christ now lives in us. We have Jesus’ righteousness alive and powerful in us. That is who the Father sees when He looks at us. It is time to seek God in prayer to make this truth come alive in the depths of our hearts.

At the very beginning of our walk, the Lord called us to admit who we were in our human brokenness and accept the fact that we couldn’t save ourselves. We surrendered our old lives and natures to Him and received new natures and identities in Him. The more we focus on our true identity, the easier it will be to leave our old identity and behaviors at the cross. When we sin after coming to Christ, it doesn’t erase our God-given identity. It is at those times that we go to the cross, confess our sins, and stand as blood washed sons and daughters of the Father. We are identified by Him, and we stand in our true identity as redeemed and beloved sons and daughters.

Spend some time in prayer to specifically focus on the shame in your heart. Identify the shameful labels – identities – that you are wrestling with. Then offer them up to the Father and ask Him to show you the identity that He gives you. We can participate in Revelation 2:17b NIV right now while we’re still in process. “To the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna. I will also give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it.” We’ve shared this message in small groups and ministry times for years. It is amazing to hear the shameful identities that people have laid down at the cross, and the holy identities they have received from the Father. We give each person a white stone as a remembrance of their true identity in Christ. I’ll never forget when a man came up to me quite a while after I shared this message. He told me how he was still carrying the white stone in his pocket as a reminder of his true identity in Christ. His heart was revived as he embraced the truth of who he is in Christ. It’s time for you to lay down your false identity and embrace your true identity in Christ. Who does God say that you are?

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